I have had a number young, female patients of late who are struggling to reach orgasm during sex. Nice women, in good relationships who are frustrated that they aren`t reaching orgasm during intercourse. Forget what you are seeing on the porn sites (shove it in, bang away for hours, and she`s moaning in Ecstasy). Unless you have trained your vagina to reach a G spot orgasm, or are stimulating her clitoris, she`s not going to be anywhere close to reaching orgasm.
These women are often surprised by the fact that only 30% of women regularly reach orgasm during intercourse. I`m getting the slack-jawed, `what do you mean most women don`t climax during intercourse?...`reaction. She comes first is a good rule of thumb. I try to explain that typically couples will engage oral sex and loads of foreplay first. Unless you get the right position, she`s up for a ride on top, you`ve got some help in the form of fingers, we vibe or vibrating cock ring, her clit is tucked up high and neglected.
I offer a couple of suggestions for women struggling with orgasms.
1. Get some clitoral orgasm cream to open up the blood flow to your genitals
2. Add a vibrator to your bedside table and get yourself stimulated before you engage in intercourse
3. Female on top position, or `closed-legs missionary`` gives you the best options for reaching orgasm
4. Lots of lube and have your partner explore with tongue and fingers before, during and after intercourse.
orgasms are the most awesome when you both Cum at the same time :)
Posted by: SexToyRick | September 18, 2011 at 01:01 AM
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Posted by: SexToyRick | September 18, 2011 at 01:06 AM